Kidru Piba

Evan Jackson, translated by Janerose Ralpho

Einwot emoj an lukun mootlak ao, MOOT LAK AO ilo ao eorom juon papa. Ejjab, ejjab lukun juon papa, (naijjanin lukun bojak), akko naij jemen juon kidu. Botab ilo ien in e kadu nan io, mene ejjab oktak im e makijkij bwod ilo kolmenlok ijon e ao, naij lelokom enij wawein ne inij jemen juon kidu. Enjake kein emokaj aer jebdrak kon mool eo, wunin, im menin kamijak eo ilo torein mour e ao inij juon jemen kidu eo im eban emman (likit juon sad face emoji). Mekarta, i jela kon aolepen men kein ejjab kabojrak rijerbal e motta ilo an kareel io bwe in bok juon neju kidu. Enin ij boktok wunin blog in, naij boke juon paij jen book e an rijerbal e motta im target ro im rej lemnak in e bok nejier kidu.


Akko blog in ej nan Sexual Assault center… ejjab blog kon kidu? Ejimwe! Im ilo an lon nejim menin mour einwot am mour jen joraan ak enjake ko im kwoj enjake ne kwoj bed ilo kojparok. Ilo base level eo juon kidu ej bed wot im emaron jiban ejaak e makikit ko im kwon loori, juon karok, im juon mottam ilo ien ko ej nana am mour. Kidu ko remaron bar ESA im kake emotional support aolep raan. Ilo leven eo ilon tata kidu eo emaron eoron juon service animal, im e maron train nan support, jiban, im kojparok armej ro im ewor aer naninmej. Ijela armej elon ien remaron lemnak bwe naninmej ko einwot bilo ak dibubbub, ak kidu ko im rej service dog remaron borainwot jiban kon mental health disorder ko im survivor ro rej entaan kaki, einwot depression, PTSD, bipolar disorder, etc. 

Im nan ro ion oror eo, enin ej lalem wun ko kwoj aikuj kij jot eo im bok juon nejim kidu: 


1. Yokwe eo eban bojrak

Juon naan rietto rej kijon ba “Likit lio ippem im kidu eo nejim ilo trunk in wa eo waam, jako iumwin juon awa, rool tok im lale won eo iar emonono in loe eok.”* Kidu ko elap aer yokwe eok jekdron kwoj itok jen lal ta, maan ak kora, iminene ko an, kabun ta eo kwoj jar ie. Lanlon in yokwe eo eban bojrak ej juon men eo kwonij mweie kake im mottan juon men eo emman ilo am nejnej juon kidu. Koba lak ippen yokwe eo, kidu ko renij support eok aolep ien, ilo aer kalimjok eok kwoj men eo emman tata jen juon slice in bilawe. Imagine an nana am mour kon an lap am inebata im am ememej tok ien eo kwar ion joraan ilo am rool tok nan mweo mom im kidu eo nejim ej karuwainene ki eok ilo an atbakwoj eok!


2. Workout partner

Kidu ko, elaptata ne rej drik, rellukun kajoor ettor to ettor tak. Aolep ien rej komman i men ko rejjab aikuj komman i ak ikkure kon juon men eo rejjab kar aikuj ikkure kake. Etke kwojjab kojerbal kajoor ne im likit ilo juon men eo im ewor kien nae? Ej kab moj an jemlok juon raan eo elap an kar aitok im elap am bed kon enjake ko im ikumkum, im kwoj konan workout, ak kwoj konan juon am partner. BOOM; bok juon nejim kidu. Komman elon lak jen juon men ilo am bok kidu eo nejim im komiro ital im ettor im ej bar juon kilen an kidu eo maron diwoj im kabojak. 


3. Kidu ko rej komman menin am etton

Kidu ko aolep ien rej komman i menko ejelok melele er ak komman e mejer bwe ro rej loe er e komman menin aer etton. Ilo mool science ej kwalok ke ro im rej nejnej kidu elap lak aer etton jen ro im rej nejnej kuuj ak ro im ejelok nejier menin mour; ekar nan juon katok jen Society and Animals. Ilo am etton wot emaron kadrik lak am inebata im kankan muscle ko am ilo an laplak immune cell ko im infection-fighting antibody ko. Men kein rejjab kaben e wot wunin am aikuj nejnej kidu, ak borainwot kwalok ke kidu ko remman lak jen kuuj. 


4. Kidu remaron komman menin an emman ejmour eo am

Juon kar katok jen National Academy of Sciences ekar kwalok ke kidu ko remaron jiban koj bwe jen maron jab bok elon allergy ko ilo aer jiban koj ejaak microbe ko nan ad mani. Kakobaba kidu ko remaron train nan et bwin dibubbub im karon partner ro aer ak ro jet. Kidu ko remaron letok nan koj jiban ko, rejjab bot, im elap ad aikuj i er. 


5. "Puppy potpourri"

Ok, ikar jab maron kalet juon theme nan men in im inij kolajerok wot jet wun ko. Rej katak in koj eddo ko ad im remaron kar ro im rej jinoin nejnej. Rej kake security im renij kojparok mweo mom. Kidu ko remaron katak in koj lemnak kon aikuj ko an ro jet mokta jen aikuj ko ad make ilo yio ko jej drik. Ej katak in koj bwe ewor ro jet im ewor aer make aikuj jen aikuj ko ad. Kiki ippen juon kidu ej jiban koj koba lak karok im makitkit ko im jej loori ilo ad boklak er bwe ren kabojak, ketetal er aolep raan, im schedule in aer mona. Ilo an lon am karok in makitkit ko am ej jiban eok kadrik lak am inebata, anxiety, im depression (buromoj). Kidu eo nejim emaron kalok beran, ktaok ko rej kwalok ke ajiri ro im rej ritto lak ilo an lon nejier kidu ilo moko mwer elap lak aer beran jen ajiri ro im ejelok nejier kidu. Men eo aurok tata jen menotemjej, RELLUKUN IN CUTE! 


Komol kon am itok nan TED Talk in ao. Emoj ao koba waj jet article ko im ikar bok jet ian melele kein ao ilo post in bwe kwon boki ilo monono. 




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