Melim & Ajiri
Alexandra Pecoraro, translated by Janerose Ralpho
Consent ej ne rej kwalok nan juon aolepen melele ko im rej monono in, konan, im erra in komman e juon men. Elon ien jej lemnak consent jej kojerbal e wot nan ien en maan ak kora rej babu ippen droon ak ion droon,ak consent ej jerbal nan aolep men ko jej komman i. Consent ej kwalok elmen ad konaan nan droon, ronjak, melele, im connect ippen ro jet. Enin ej juon kolajerok eo kadu, ippen jet tip jen The Healthy Sex Talk, kon kilen konaan ippen ajiri kon consent.
1–5
Kajjitok melim ippen ro mottam
- Ekka ad kijon ba ajiri ro ren high five, atebakwoj, ak mejenme jebed ien en rej ba hi/bye, ak jej aikuj in kakobaiki lak aurok in an ajiri ro kajjitok ippen droon ne remaron komman i men kein. Kwomaron ba “Lily kwar ke loe jinna eo an Jamie ke ellukun emman, kajjitok ippen Jaime ne e konan high five!” “Mikey, kajjitok ippen Susan ne e konan bwe kwon atebakwoj e ilo am ba hi nan e!” Ne ajiri eo ej ba jaab ak komman ainikien makoko, ba nan ajiri eo ej kajjitok im ba en komman bar jet kol ko einwot right on, hello lak, tuuj nan kwalok am monono
Katak in ajiri ro nejim ke remaron ba bojrak im jaab
- Ej jinoe ilo am kamelele ki er ta malele in bojrak ak jaab. Ne jej ron an juon armej ba bojrak ak jaab melele in ke jej aikuj kaju bojrak ta eo jej komman e. Einwot jet mama im papa ak ri-lale ajiri eo ellukun aurok bwe jen kautej ajiri ro ne rej ba bojrak ak jaab, kinke rej katak jen men ko jej komman i
- Nan ne juon ajiri enij melele, bojrak im jaab, rej aikuj bwe kwon kamelele ki er bwe ne ro mottaer ak ritto ro jet renij jab ronjake aer ba bojrak im jaab melele in ke ejjab emman im rej aikuj ba nan juon armej eo elap aer leke
Jiban foster melele kon droon im katakin ajiri ro jiban droon
- Kamelele nan er ewi wawein an men ko renij komman i kametak ro jet, im komman bwe ren lemnak kon ajiri ro jet im ta ko renij enjaki. Emaron ba “Julie ijela kwar konan kukij eo, ak kwolak bok kukij eo kijen Blake jen e, Blake ekar buromoj. Jejjab konan bwe Blake en buromoj melele jejjab kaju e bok jabdewot jen armej kinke jekonan.”
- Ne ajiri ro renij jinoe loe ta ko ro jet rej enjaki kwon katak in er bwe ren lukun lale ne ro jet renij metak ak buromoj. Ne armej rej aikuj jiban rej aikuj ital nan ritto ro bwe ren bok jiban
5–12
Konaan kon enbwinier kon jimwe in naan
- Mama im papa im ri-lale ajiri ro rej aikuj jerbal im ejaak e jon jikin eo im ajiri ro remaron kajjitok kon enbwinier im oktak ko im rej walok nan enbwinier, ilo ad kakememej er bwe oktak ko im rej walok renij baj wot walok ne juon ej ritto lak im healthy nan juon armej
- Ellukun aurok bwe kwon kojerbal jimwe in naan ko einwot koko, bibi, ittit, bwid, etc. Ilo am kojerbal et in komman kojak ko enij ejaak jet ien ko im rekauwotata im rikaki ro aer im ritto ro jet renij jaje ta melele naan ko rej ba, im ne juon enij metak ak rej kametak e remaron jab bok jiban eo im renij aikuj i ien eo emokaj tata
Komman ien time out im ejaak naan ko im remaron kojerbal i ak safe word
- Ne ajiri ro rej ikkure ippen droon katak in er bwe ren bojrak im lale ejet an droon bed. Ajiri ro remaron kajjitok “kwoj limo wot ke?”, “eman ke ippen ne kwoj [x arin juon armej]?”, “kwoj ke konan ikkure wot?”
- Nan ajiri ro im rej hang out, im jab ikkure, katak in wot er bwe ren lale ejet an droon bed “emman ke ippem topic in im jej konaan kake?” “emman ippem ne kwoj [jabdewot men eo rej komman e]?”
- Ilo am ejaak i naan ko remaron kojerbal i einwot safe word ko enij kabiroro ki lak an ba bojrak, ak jaab. Emaron einwot topic in konaan ak ikkure, im kotlak bwe aolep ren jela ke ren kaju bojrak.
- Wonmanlak wot im jerbal e aer jela kon droon im aer lukun lale droon
- Kwon lale ewi wawein mejer im enbwinier ilo aer uak
- Bar bok juon bunton nan am kamelele kon men ko armej rej komman i im emaron jelot ro jet. Lale ewi wawein aer uak ilo aer ba ak komman i men ko, ta melele in?
JAB KOMMAN KOJAK KON MOTTA EO AK NE JUON EJ KONAN JUON
- Yio ko kein im armej rej jinoe ejaak mottaer im ro rekonak er im ilo am komman kojak kon ajiri ro enij komman menin aer jook im enooj men jen kwe. Kajjitok ipper “Ejet classmate en am?” “Ejet lien/len mottam?” im rejjab konan konaan kake bar boklontak bar juon raan
12–18
Kalok self esteem im tomak eo an
- Ilo an ajiri ro jinoe puberty elon research ak katak ko rej kwalok bwe ej wotlak self-esteem eo aer. Ilo ien eo leddrik ro rej 17 aer yio, 78% in leddrik ro renij drike enbwinier. Jekdron ne ajiri eo enij uak im ba “ijela,” ak “ellukun kajokok,” bikot kilen am kamonono ki er
- Ilo aer katak kilen melele kon droon, jino am katak in er ta oktak kotaan am lale enjake ko an ro jet im ukot ta ko rej komman i ekar nan ta ko ro jet rej ba
Kabojrak komman kojak ko im rejjab emman
- Ien eo wot kwoj ron naan ko rejjab emman, rekemetak, ak naan ko rej kijon ba ilo “locker room” ko kwon kabojrak i. Kwon kamelele bwe naan ewor melele in er im remaron kametak armej
- Ilo am jab kabojrak komman kojak ko rejjab emman im naan ko rejjab emman emaron ejaak burobolom ko. Waan jonak ne kwojjab ba nan juon ajiri im ba ejjab emman kanok boran juon bar ajiri kwoj katak in ajiri eo bwe ilo aer lelak peiur im/ak kametak juon ej juon men emman ilo an kwalok an illu
Uak kajjitok
- Jab ubaake ajiri ro. Jab ba nan er im ba ren bojrak kajinet. Ejaak e juon jikin eo im remaron kajjitok ilo aer jab mijak im ba jabdewot ta eo ilo lemnak eo aer im ta ko rej enjaki
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